Tongue Your Own Mouth This strange technique is surprisingly effective. By rubbing the top of your own mouth with your tongue, you are placing all of your attention on doing this peculiar act, thereby distracting yourself and not focusing on the pleasure your genitals are experiencing. Edging (also called surfing, peaking, teasing, and more) is the practice of stopping yourself from reaching orgasm right when you’re on the cusp. Whether you have a penis or vagina, edging can.
There are many techniques and practices to move the energy, for example, exhale fully and hold your breath for as long as you can, or visualize the energy going up your spine. To learn more techniques to move your sexual energy so you could last longer in bed, click here. The core of my method to control ejaculation is Feel, Stop, and Move. Ask your partner to squeeze your penis at the place where the head meets the shaft. Your partner should squeeze for several seconds until the need to ejaculate lessens. After 30 seconds, resume foreplay and repeat as necessary. This will help you to gain control and enable you to enter your partner without ejaculating immediately.